Five Hausa Men Love Bombing Tactics You Should Watch Out For

You know that moment when you’re minding your business, and a Hausa man decides you’re the most important person in his universe? Yeah, that’s when the love bombing begins. Don’t get me wrong—Hausa men are sweet, but sometimes their charm can be overwhelming. So, let me share five love bombing tactics to watch out for when you find yourself caught in the crossfire of their intense affection.

1. The “Ma, I’ve Never Met Anyone Like You” Line

This is classic. You’ll hear it in the first week, maybe even the first day. He’ll swear you’re one in a million, and no woman has ever made him feel this way before. He’ll say it with such sincerity, you might believe it. But remember, this is the love-bombing equivalent of a carefully rehearsed line from a blockbuster movie. They know how to deliver it perfectly!

2. The Daily “How’s Your Day Going?” Texts

This man will check on you like he’s your personal assistant. Every hour, you’ll get a “How are you doing, ma?” message, complete with a prayer that you have the best day ever. It’s cute at first, but soon you’ll find yourself timing your responses just to catch a breather. I mean, it’s nice to be checked on, but some space is nice too!

3. The “Let Me Buy You the World” Gesture

Hausa men have a way of making you feel like a queen. Expect random gifts—ankara fabrics, shawls, or those chunky Hausa bangles. He’ll throw in the “It’s nothing, ma. Just because you’re special.” Just remember, all this pampering might come with a hidden agenda, so stay woke!

4. The Name-Dropping Family Man

Next, he’ll start telling you about his mother and how much she’d love you. He’ll say his sisters are already waiting to meet you. And oh, did he mention his cousin got married last week, and wouldn’t it be wonderful if you two followed suit? You’re already mentally planning a wedding in Kano before you’ve had a second date.

5. The “Future Together” Talk

By the second week, you’ll have your entire future mapped out—kids’ names, wedding colors, and possibly where you’ll retire. It’s like he’s written a novella with you as the leading lady. It’s flattering, but girl, pace yourself before you get swept away in all those grand plans!

All in all, Hausa men are sweet people, trust me they’d always wow you with their perfume taste, sometimes they’d even choke you with it, but they’ve perfected the art of love bombing. And love bombing is actually some peoples green flag but just in case you’re not a fan, make sure to keep your head on straight while your heart’s fluttering, and you’ll be just fine!